Third Time’s a Charm: Finding Purpose in Patience Amidst Another Surgery Delay

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Another surgery delay has left me reeling yet again. Here’s how I’m practicing lymphatic acceptance amidst all the changes.

Last fall, when my surgery was unexpectedly canceled just days before it was set to take place, I was disappointed.

When it happened again, less than a month before the rescheduled date, I was absolutely gutted.

Changes to Health Insurance Change the Plan

In early April, my employer, who provides my health insurance, announced a change in our insurance provider. After a brief open enrollment period, the switch to the new plan would take place on May 1st.

My pre-surgery checklist became a scratchpad of notes and dates as I tried to figure out what was next.

My heart sunk: My lymphedema surgery was scheduled for May 2nd. What did this mean as far as coverage for my procedure?

The surgery was pre-authorized through my current insurance provider — would the authorization carry over, I wondered, or would it need to be re-submitted to the new provider? With less than a month until the surgery date, I doubted that would be possible.

I spent the next few days on the phone with my HR department, my current insurance provider, and the Cleveland Clinic, trying to understand how this would affect my surgery.

Eventually I found out that, yes, the clinic did need to obtain pre-authorization from the new insurance provider, which meant the surgery had to be rescheduled. Again.

The clinic penciled me in for a date in early June, but are unable to confirm the appointment without the new insurance information — information neither I nor my employer has access to until May 1st.

So: I wait.

From Surgery Delays to Brighter Days

Like last time, this delay is no one’s fault, but it’s still a disappointment.

My mom gently reminded me that it’s not canceled, only postponed, yet my inner Veruca Salt stomped her swollen legs and whined anyway.

My body’s been changing from my lymphedema. I see it, I feel it — and I didn’t realize how tightly I was holding onto this surgery as a means to give me more control over my condition and its progression. So I cried. I wrote in my journal. I leaned on my support system, and cried some more.

Once the dust settled and there was nothing else to do but wait for the new insurance to kick in, I reached a place of acceptance. I decided I’d use this extra time as an opportunity to focus on prehab so I can have the best possible outcomes for both the surgery and the recovery.

I gotta say, though, that my lymphedema guardian angel has been really watching out for me with these delays. Each one has come with a twist of lymphatic kismet: last time I spent my would-be surgery date bowling with children with lymphedema, and this time, I’ll again be cocooned in the community.

With my trip to Cleveland canceled, I was able to accept an invitation to speak at the upcoming National Lymphedema Network Patient Summit — an invitation I previously had to decline because it conflicted with my surgery date. My presentation, titled “Living and Writing the Lymphie Life,” will share lessons learned about my lymphedema through blogging, and encourage others to share their positive “lymphfluence” as they go about their own lymphie lives.

So, despite waiting a little longer for my surgery, I’m not waiting alone. It makes it easier to be patient when I’m with other patients.

Insurance Coverage Resources

The healthcare system is a frustrating maze, made even more complicated when you’re seeking treatment for a misunderstood condition like lymphedema and other lymphatic diseases. Coverage isn’t always guaranteed, and we may have to advocate harder for ourselves to get the care we need and deserve.

I wish I had the answers to help those of you on similar journeys, or a clear roadmap to offer, but I barely understand it myself. That said, here are a few resources I’ve found helpful for navigating health insurance with lymphedema:

This list is centered around the United States healthcare system, but if you have any additional tips or resources for navigating your country’s healthcare system, please leave them in the comments. They might help someone else!

Keep fighting the good fight, lymphies — and stay elevated!

Comments

20 responses to “Third Time’s a Charm: Finding Purpose in Patience Amidst Another Surgery Delay”

  1. Excellent post! Rooting for perfect timing and positive outcomes!

  2. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
    Alexa Ercolano

    Thanks so much, Brenda! ☺️

  3. Rachel Avatar

    I’m so sorry! I’ve been following your journey for a little while now, as I also receive my treatment at Cleveland Clinic. I understand the feeling of frustration from a postponement. Hang in there! It will be worth it in the end!

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Thank you, Rachel! Your words are encouraging. 💙

      1. Rachel Avatar

        Feel free to reach out if you have any questions. I had MITESE on 8/24 and 10/24.

        1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
          Alexa Ercolano

          Ooh, yes – I have a couple questions and will definitely reach out! Thank you 🙏

  4. Tari Harmon Avatar
    Tari Harmon

    I have lympaph

  5. Jenny Avatar

    Hold on. We are
    With you

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Thank you, Jenny – it means a lot 💙

  6. Item #4 in “10 Things to Know About Lymphedema Insurance Coverage” by the Lymphatic Education & Research Network is out of date. Thanks to passage of the Lymphedema Treatment Act, Medicare does now cover compression garments. See the resources from the Lymphedema Advocacy Group for current information about this coverage.

  7. Susan Bisson Avatar
    Susan Bisson

    What does your lymphodema surgery invoves having done? I live in New Zealand and have had severe lympphodema for 16 years now from a mosquito borne virus that destroyed lymph nodes. It changed my life drastically, have expensive custom made compression stockings and have to wear trousers all the time to cover my legs, extreme difficult getting a shoe to fit, let alone a nice looking one. It is so depressing.

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Hi Susan – I am so very sorry to hear what you’re going through. Lymphedema can really turn our lives upside down. Are you familiar with the Australasian Lymphology Association? They have a lot of resources on their website, from a registry of practitioners to educational information: https://www.lymphoedema.org.au/

      Here are a few I found that are specific to New Zealand: http://www.lymphoedemanz.org.nz/ and https://www.lymphinfo.org.nz/

      I am going to have a suction-assisted protein lipectomy (SAPL) as well as a minimally invasive tissue excision with possible redundant skin excision (MITESE) – or, in more basic terms, liposuction and excess skin removal. I go into more detail about it here: https://thelymphielife.com/2024/06/14/next-stop-cleveland-im-getting-surgery-for-my-lymphedema/

      If you’re interested in surgical treatment, I did some Googling and found this group in Auckland that may be helpful to reach out to: https://lymphaticsurgery.co.nz/

      Sorry to bombard you with so many links! I hope you will check them out, though, and find some helpful information and local support. Sending you lots of love in the meantime – you are not alone 💙

  8. Pamela Harvey Avatar
    Pamela Harvey

    Best of luck, you deserve it. You are an inspiration to many of us who are suffering and embarrassed from this awful affliction. Please keep us posted.

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Thank you so much, Pamela – that’s very kind. I definitely will continue to share updates!

  9. Elissa Strati Avatar
    Elissa Strati

    Keeping you in my prayers! You’ve been having an extra rough time with your journey, but I suspect someone up there is tweaking things so you may provide the maximum effective information for all of us! Big hugs, swift resolution, and successful surgery! (As did one of the earlier commentors, I, too, am curious how surgery can provide improvement to your affected areas. Surgery is what caused my own issues, fortunately relatively minor.)

    Best, Elissa!

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Thank you, Elissa – I appreciate your insights so much, and I agree that there’s some bigger reason for the timing. The fact that each delay opened up my schedule for meaningful time with the community is not lost on me! :) Big hugs back atcha, and hope you’re doing well, too.
      💙

      PS: The suction-assisted protein lipectomy is meant to remove the more solid “gunk” in my leg (fibrosis, fatty deposits) to aid in reduction and improve lymphatic flow. My surgeon suggested a form of supermicrosurgery as well, where they connect lymphatic vessels in the affected limb to nearby veins to reroute the lymphatic fluid… but this is dependent on insurance coverage. I’ll continue to update here as the journey continues!

  10. Hello Beautiful Winner 🏆
    How are you? Powerful story! You are absolutely living proof that living on purpose, walking in your purpose, and stepping out on purpose truly is what you are called to do. Keep living, thriving, showing heart, Faith, and love. I see you, I hear you, I read you, I follow you. I just learned so much about you. What an inspiration for us as Lympies. We matter! Remember: “When you show up, you have already won!”™

  11. Kim Hill Avatar
    Kim Hill

    Many of us in the lymphedema world appreciates the honesty and transparency with our condition. I thank you for providing a window into your life. This serves as not only a purpose for you, but enables someone like me to stay positive and move forward. This Lymphie sends a hug of encouragement. Wishing and hoping for all of the blessings for your journey. Take care. Kim :)

  12. Sandra Avatar

    Hi Alexa,
    Have you had your Mitise surgery this month ?
    Hope and pray all has gone well 🩷
    I am looking at scheduling the same surgery for my arm with Dr Chen .
    Heal Frirnx

    1. Alexa Ercolano Avatar
      Alexa Ercolano

      Hi Sandra – no, I wasn’t able to reschedule it in time due to a couple different factors, although I hope to try again early next year. Thank you for your kind thoughts! I hope all goes well with your scheduling and surgery, too. 💙

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